Comments on: Indian Indian bhai bhai http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/ Another one of those blogs you read regularly Sat, 14 Nov 2009 05:17:29 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Benmiester http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-717 Benmiester Fri, 18 Jul 2008 11:04:31 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-717 give it up for me fella desis, ive had a few experiences myself n i learned things the hard way... my breda INDIAN go say hi to a randomer n ull be called a wierdo if u did..thn if they do reply sooner or later they are bound to call u a FOB for ur accent or grammar ie if u wer to speak english to them. all these indian wannabe gangstas hu couldn take even pee str8 back home act like they the own the place... id say wat u need wen u go abroad is first to make some non indian mates n thn the indians will flock towards u...i aint dissing indians but the experiences are way too bad..ther is no place like back home...but thn again life aint a bed of roses .no point complaining am i contridicting mysefl? i wonder lol... give it up for me fella desis,

ive had a few experiences myself n i learned things the hard way… my breda INDIAN go say hi to a randomer n ull be called a wierdo if u did..thn if they do reply sooner or later they are bound to call u a FOB for ur accent or grammar ie if u wer to speak english to them. all these indian wannabe gangstas hu couldn take even pee str8 back home act like they the own the place… id say wat u need wen u go abroad is first to make some non indian mates n thn the indians will flock towards u…i aint dissing indians but the experiences are way too bad..ther is no place like back home…but thn again life aint a bed of roses .no point complaining am i contridicting mysefl? i wonder lol…

]]> By: fruitymind http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-289 fruitymind Tue, 06 May 2008 07:01:54 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-289 @ Suda- hmm you had a good time reading the comments..... :D @ Suda- hmm you had a good time reading the comments….. :D

]]> By: Suda http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-288 Suda Tue, 06 May 2008 05:57:16 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-288 Ting! :-D Ting! :-D

]]> By: Indian http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-267 Indian Sat, 03 May 2008 04:08:28 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-267 seems u guyz enjoy sad comments....lolzzzz...:) keep doing these kinds of run away hits...... @yaake u r sadist....dont bother replyg to this no one gonna read it after this .....lolz.....:) ...keep waiting ...... seems u guyz enjoy sad comments….lolzzzz…:) keep doing these kinds of run away hits……

@yaake u r sadist….dont bother replyg to this no one gonna read it after this …..lolz…..:) …keep waiting ……

]]> By: fruitymind http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-265 fruitymind Sat, 03 May 2008 03:41:50 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-265 @ Yaake- Fun?? eh not so much..getting sad mashings and being labelled not indian.....eh!! so heavy dose it was! Yeah 19 comments!! I O U big time....!! :D fruity :) @ Yaake- Fun?? eh not so much..getting sad mashings and being labelled not indian…..eh!!
so heavy dose it was!
Yeah 19 comments!! I O U big time….!! :D
fruity :)

]]> By: yaake http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-263 yaake Sat, 03 May 2008 02:11:22 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-263 @Fruity hehehehe!!! Wasn't that fun? :D Congrats, my dear. You've blogged a runaway hit!! 19 comments! wow! @Fruity
hehehehe!!! Wasn’t that fun? :D
Congrats, my dear. You’ve blogged a runaway hit!! 19 comments! wow!

]]> By: fruitymind http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-262 fruitymind Sat, 03 May 2008 00:59:07 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-262 @ Indian- Yeah hope we all realize soon. And keep checking the blog space. All posts aren't that controversial. You may find find something like minded! cheers..enjoy your weekend, fruity :) @ Indian- Yeah hope we all realize soon. And keep checking the blog space. All posts aren’t that controversial. You may find find something like minded!
cheers..enjoy your weekend,
fruity :)

]]> By: Indian http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-261 Indian Sat, 03 May 2008 00:45:37 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-261 @fruity....peace .....like the last lines best if all indians relaize what is there mistake....thz it.......i am out of yr blog now....:) cheers.... @fruity….peace …..like the last lines best if all indians relaize what is there mistake….thz it…….i am out of yr blog now….:) cheers….

]]> By: fruitymind http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-260 fruitymind Sat, 03 May 2008 00:20:40 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-260 @ Yaake- Relax....its not INDIAN's fault..May be he hasn't faced similar situations as we did. Its his opinion. Lets respect each other's opinion-that's what the spirit of right of freedom of speech is. Blogging means sharing your own seedlings -we can't impose our thoughts on every random person who reads it. So chill-and keep blogging. We already have our own shares of -'most likely random thoughts to be'. ;) lets ponder over those over a while!!! hehe Cheers, fruity @ Yaake- Relax….its not INDIAN’s fault..May be he hasn’t faced similar situations as we did. Its his opinion. Lets respect each other’s opinion-that’s what the spirit of right of freedom of speech is. Blogging means sharing your own seedlings -we can’t impose our thoughts on every random person who reads it.
So chill-and keep blogging.
We already have our own shares of -’most likely random thoughts to be’. ;) lets ponder over those over a while!!! hehe
Cheers,
fruity

]]> By: fruitymind http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-259 fruitymind Sat, 03 May 2008 00:17:38 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-259 @ Indian- Thanks for your indepth comments. I don't know one thing why you stressing on one fact that I may haven't smiled first or said hi first. Again I repeat do you think I am mad enough to write this post without ever attempting your suggestion??????? I have done that. I came here after a year long of hardships and stress and it was first time out of my house ever. I am a very exuberant person who can even talk to a stranger for hours. Do you think I'd not have tried being friendly to people to find out new friends? I tried but efforts went in vain! May be you're lucky enough to have striked rigt people here in NZ but I wasn't. Situations and people can't be same for both of us-I hope you agree with this fact of mine..(I sincerely hope you do). I am so madly proud of India. For our housewarming I had a special day where I read out excerpts from Ramayan (now you tell me how many of your NZ desi girls know how to even read Ramayan???) Don't accuse me of not being Indian. I am honored to have you as a frequent reader on the blog but believe me somewhere you've made the blog prove little right.You a fellow Indian accused me of not being Indian. I am hurt of this cloy conversation going on for this post even when I did clearly mentioned in the last line-'I have many helpful Indian friends too but exceptions are everywhere. I am talking about the general mindset of Indian community here.' And please don't fight with Yaake just because he has a different set of opinion. We are different people who have different opinions. Its so true that India got its Independence in 1947 but the real Independence will be attained when we stop fighting within ourselves, forget jingoism, abhor ghettoism and not accuse every secong person we see-hindu,muslim,sikh or christian for not being Indian. I am really sad and disturbed, fruity @ Indian- Thanks for your indepth comments. I don’t know one thing why you stressing on one fact that I may haven’t smiled first or said hi first. Again I repeat do you think I am mad enough to write this post without ever attempting your suggestion???????
I have done that. I came here after a year long of hardships and stress and it was first time out of my house ever. I am a very exuberant person who can even talk to a stranger for hours. Do you think I’d not have tried being friendly to people to find out new friends? I tried but efforts went in vain! May be you’re lucky enough to have striked rigt people here in NZ but I wasn’t. Situations and people can’t be same for both of us-I hope you agree with this fact of mine..(I sincerely hope you do). I am so madly proud of India. For our housewarming I had a special day where I read out excerpts from Ramayan (now you tell me how many of your NZ desi girls know how to even read Ramayan???) Don’t accuse me of not being Indian. I am honored to have you as a frequent reader on the blog but believe me somewhere you’ve made the blog prove little right.You a fellow Indian accused me of not being Indian. I am hurt of this cloy conversation going on for this post even when I did clearly mentioned in the last line-’I have many helpful Indian friends too but exceptions are everywhere. I am talking about the general mindset of Indian community here.’
And please don’t fight with Yaake just because he has a different set of opinion. We are different people who have different opinions.
Its so true that India got its Independence in 1947 but the real Independence will be attained when we stop fighting within ourselves, forget jingoism, abhor ghettoism and not accuse every secong person we see-hindu,muslim,sikh or christian for not being Indian.
I am really sad and disturbed,
fruity

]]> By: fruitymind http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-258 fruitymind Fri, 02 May 2008 23:58:18 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-258 @ Arvind-Thanks for visiting my blog. Yeah it happens a lot of times here. I felt bad as I was first time away from home and was totally homesick. And for adding you in my roll of honor-no worries..you have a nice blog and it deserved to be added! fruity :) @ Arvind-Thanks for visiting my blog. Yeah it happens a lot of times here. I felt bad as I was first time away from home and was totally homesick.
And for adding you in my roll of honor-no worries..you have a nice blog and it deserved to be added!
fruity :)

]]> By: Indian http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-257 Indian Fri, 02 May 2008 20:26:52 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-257 @ Yaake....hey do i care....about what u say ....and i am staying in abroad in New zealand...i hope u know where it is....or fruity must have told u...lolz :)...... and have been to many places u must have not dreamt too........ok seems u have steepd out for the first time into your wonderland :) and have become the people u r discussing about.....when u step into a room if they dont say hello you can....see they mit tell u a hi also......and think no end of yourself.....if u can take good then why cant u take bad...learn to take good and bad comments if u wanna write blogs......it seems u r those guy who do these things write and then bad mouth other indians.........ruhi post was very negative so i said crap for desi connection......now stay happy and keep blogging yr crap.....will not bother checking these anymore...... @ Yaake….hey do i care….about what u say ….and i am staying in abroad in New zealand…i hope u know where it is….or fruity must have told u…lolz :) …… and have been to many places u must have not dreamt too……..ok seems u have steepd out for the first time into your wonderland :) and have become the people u r discussing about…..when u step into a room if they dont say hello you can….see they mit tell u a hi also……and think no end of yourself…..if u can take good then why cant u take bad…learn to take good and bad comments if u wanna write blogs……it seems u r those guy who do these things write and then bad mouth other indians………ruhi post was very negative so i said crap for desi connection……now stay happy and keep blogging yr crap…..will not bother checking these anymore……

]]> By: yaake http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-256 yaake Fri, 02 May 2008 17:17:00 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-256 @Fruity All I can say is that when certain people (wink wink) think that certain issues are being downplayed a lot and that indians are being anti-indian in other countries, then those certain people are dangerously close to being jingoists... :D Don't worry, dear Fruity. A million other people who have experienced what you have will adhere to your words... http://mirrorcracked.wordpress.com @Fruity
All I can say is that when certain people (wink wink) think that certain issues are being downplayed a lot and that indians are being anti-indian in other countries, then those certain people are dangerously close to being jingoists… :D
Don’t worry, dear Fruity. A million other people who have experienced what you have will adhere to your words…
http://mirrorcracked.wordpress.com

]]> By: yaake http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-255 yaake Fri, 02 May 2008 17:14:12 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-255 Dear INDIAN, You seem to be quite language-challenged, so i'll try to use simple terms here, so that you can understand better, and not jump to conclusions. When ppl go abroad, most of them are away from home and family and tend to look for like-minded people to talk to and feel comfortable with. Sometimes, when idiots go abroad, they become bigger idiots and think that they've been blessed with some great power and start acting high and mighty. If you havent stepped out of India, then I'm afraid neither Fruity nor I can empathize with you about what we've been through. Because you would never understand!! Imagine walking into a room filled with five desis and five firangs and all the firangs smile at you and wave and some say hello, even though they don't know you, and all the desis are looking at their feet, or at the ceiling, not even acknowledging a fellow desi's presence... So my dear "indian", please think carefully before you make accusations and comment nonsense! By the way, if you think Ruhi's post on The Desi Connection was crap, then there's something seriously wrong with you, my friend! Go to the mall, I've heard they're giving lives away cheap... !!! :D Sincerely, A proud Indian! P.S. Don't bother replying or visiting my blog, because you seem to be closing your eyes and feigning blindness!! Frankly, I don't give a damn...!! :D http://mirrorcracked.wordpress.com Dear INDIAN,
You seem to be quite language-challenged, so i’ll try to use simple terms here, so that you can understand better, and not jump to conclusions.
When ppl go abroad, most of them are away from home and family and tend to look for like-minded people to talk to and feel comfortable with. Sometimes, when idiots go abroad, they become bigger idiots and think that they’ve been blessed with some great power and start acting high and mighty. If you havent stepped out of India, then I’m afraid neither Fruity nor I can empathize with you about what we’ve been through. Because you would never understand!! Imagine walking into a room filled with five desis and five firangs and all the firangs smile at you and wave and some say hello, even though they don’t know you, and all the desis are looking at their feet, or at the ceiling, not even acknowledging a fellow desi’s presence… So my dear “indian”, please think carefully before you make accusations and comment nonsense!
By the way, if you think Ruhi’s post on The Desi Connection was crap, then there’s something seriously wrong with you, my friend! Go to the mall, I’ve heard they’re giving lives away cheap… !!! :D
Sincerely,
A proud Indian!
P.S. Don’t bother replying or visiting my blog, because you seem to be closing your eyes and feigning blindness!! Frankly, I don’t give a damn…!! :D
http://mirrorcracked.wordpress.com

]]> By: Indian http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-254 Indian Fri, 02 May 2008 00:15:38 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-254 @ aRVIND......read it itz crap.....again she seems2 be a anti indian in US OF A ....lolz :)...... @ aRVIND……read it itz crap…..again she seems2 be a anti indian in US OF A ….lolz :) ……

]]> By: arvind http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-253 arvind Thu, 01 May 2008 13:31:56 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-253 he he ..this complaint is on evevry person's mouth who is abroad. :P check out ruhi's desi connection post... @ ruhii.com and yeah thanks for adding my blog in ur blogroll ... ;) he he ..this complaint is on evevry person’s mouth who is abroad. :P
check out ruhi’s desi connection post…
@ ruhii.com

and yeah thanks for adding my blog in ur blogroll … ;)

]]> By: Indian http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-252 Indian Thu, 01 May 2008 10:20:40 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-252 Hey seems u have met the wrong peepz :).....who dnt smile...let us become the generation to change indians in nz and hey i do stay here also and peeps did nt smile i did not get discouraged kept smiling and got a suprising smile one day and loved it...saw a change.......In regards to discouraging peepz back home u r not doing that tell them the truth if they know that atleast they wont make mistakes as we have done ...so they r well prepared and not coming with any wrong info.... In regards to struggle i am over that now did feel the same as other these r the same peepz who were told good story where as the frend was struggling ....take the struggle as it comes and change it into a good day.....the peepz who keep tellng u tell them how u think of the struggle and they will change......have discussed on that page already on orkut we had a good argument there so does not make a sense...do read there r some very good answers......do u back home smile at every person that comes yr way ....i do not think so then why do u expect them to change.......old habit do they change.... Hey seems u have met the wrong peepz :) …..who dnt smile…let us become the generation to change indians in nz and hey i do stay here also and peeps did nt smile i did not get discouraged kept smiling and got a suprising smile one day and loved it…saw a change…….In regards to discouraging peepz back home u r not doing that tell them the truth if they know that atleast they wont make mistakes as we have done …so they r well prepared and not coming with any wrong info…. In regards to struggle i am over that now did feel the same as other these r the same peepz who were told good story where as the frend was struggling ….take the struggle as it comes and change it into a good day…..the peepz who keep tellng u tell them how u think of the struggle and they will change……have discussed on that page already on orkut we had a good argument there so does not make a sense…do read there r some very good answers……do u back home smile at every person that comes yr way ….i do not think so then why do u expect them to change…….old habit do they change….

]]> By: fruitymind http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-249 fruitymind Thu, 01 May 2008 06:23:12 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-249 @ Sanjay- Yeah I am one true Indian. Proud to be an Indian in every sense. Indians are mind blowing. I have few wonderful friends here! fruity :) @ Sanjay- Yeah I am one true Indian. Proud to be an Indian in every sense.
Indians are mind blowing. I have few wonderful friends here!

fruity :)

]]> By: fruitymind http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-248 fruitymind Thu, 01 May 2008 06:21:44 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-248 @ Indian- Thanks for your comment. Do you think I am mad enough to write this post without ever attempting to pass a smile to my fellow Indians? I am new in NZ and expected to become friends with Indians as I have never been out of Delhi my entire life. But wherever I have seen I have met mean people who have always told their struggling stories to create negative impact on me. Yeah am not making fun of their struggle. But the way they tell their struggle is pathetic. I am also struggling here but enjoying it too. If people back in Inda ask me about life here I tell the true picture.I don;t discourage them by saying -O life is sh** here and taxes are high so please don't come here. They crib and crib if they are so pissed off why don't they go back? Trust me its true! Come here and see. This is a link on Orkut community with the same issue...read it pls ad then answer back- http://www.orkut.com/CommMsgs.aspx?cmm=3681761&tid=2479032138758067522&na=1&nst=1 helpless, fruity @ Indian- Thanks for your comment. Do you think I am mad enough to write this post without ever attempting to pass a smile to my fellow Indians? I am new in NZ and expected to become friends with Indians as I have never been out of Delhi my entire life. But wherever I have seen I have met mean people who have always told their struggling stories to create negative impact on me. Yeah am not making fun of their struggle. But the way they tell their struggle is pathetic. I am also struggling here but enjoying it too. If people back in Inda ask me about life here I tell the true picture.I don;t discourage them by saying -O life is sh** here and taxes are high so please don’t come here. They crib and crib if they are so pissed off why don’t they go back? Trust me its true! Come here and see.
This is a link on Orkut community with the same issue…read it pls ad then answer back- http://www.orkut.com/CommMsgs.aspx?cmm=3681761&tid=2479032138758067522&na=1&nst=1

helpless,
fruity

]]> By: fruitymind http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/indian/#comment-247 fruitymind Thu, 01 May 2008 06:13:12 +0000 http://mindflirting.wordpress.com/?p=111#comment-247 @ Yaake- ah thaks for understanding the spirit of blog. I knewI am gonna get good smacking on this post. And here it goes after your comment. I am proud to be an INDIAN. Probably more than the supericial guys. fruity ;) @ Yaake- ah thaks for understanding the spirit of blog. I knewI am gonna get good smacking on this post. And here it goes after your comment.
I am proud to be an INDIAN. Probably more than the supericial guys.
fruity ;)

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