Comments on: Baat Nikli hai to phir duur talak Jayegi

By: Mahak

Mahak — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 03:24:26 +0000

yeah theres so much about this ghazal you know….i love it

By: robbie

robbie — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 19:15:22 +0000

this according to me is the best ghazal to heal the wounds of a broken heart

By: fruity

fruity — Sun, 02 Aug 2009 08:23:00 +0000

@sakhi – your most welcome, pyaari sakhi

By: fruity

fruity — Sun, 02 Aug 2009 08:21:07 +0000

@ abhishek – thanks, definitely one of my fav

By: fruity

fruity — Sun, 02 Aug 2009 08:20:46 +0000

@ macha – unfortunately, my urdu hindi and english isn’t advanced enough to translate it with the same emotions as the original lyrics…

By: fruity

fruity — Sun, 02 Aug 2009 08:20:08 +0000

@ amit – Nai haven’t heard this one!! will find it…now for sure

By: fruity

fruity — Sun, 02 Aug 2009 08:19:42 +0000

i don’t when will the mind set change..guess it changes the moment someone your own becomes one!

By: Sakhi

Sakhi — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 13:18:40 +0000

Thanks sweetie

By: Abhishek

Abhishek — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 17:58:08 +0000

Nice Gazal !!

By: Nikhil

Nikhil — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 09:44:46 +0000

Unfortunately, my Hindi isn’t advanced enough for me to understand the poem!

By: amit

amit — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 14:21:41 +0000

I like this Ghazal. Have you heard – Aah ko chahiye?

By: Reema

Reema — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 14:02:24 +0000

true. all these traditions and customs for widows and the ways others treat them are ridiculous.

By: fruity

fruity — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 06:04:35 +0000

@ Sakhi – girl you are more than welcome to take my whole blog’s space.
Thanks for sharing your story…..a lot of what I have written above is what I have gone through personally.
Even my chemistry with certain ‘relatives’ has changed completely.

No matter how much educated they are or where they are living, this ‘outcast’ factor always remains because they are so occupied with their own happy happy place that they can not understand the trauma of others and can’t think of ruining their positive vibes in life.

I can’t see my mother’s pics now -she looks….barren is the word I am looking for.

I know for a fact that these other women are also not immune to this stage in life.
So yeah – peer parayi jaane re

By: fruity

fruity — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 05:58:37 +0000

@ Harsh – yeah that’s a nice ghazal as well…

By: sakhi

sakhi — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 04:14:24 +0000

how true fruity… when dad passed away thank god my mom did not pass through all these. For one thing our family is not stuck with such things, secondly, i am too strong to allow anything to happen to mom which she might not like. But recently one wedding took place from mom’s place where the girl was to get married from mom’s place. All was well and the atmosphere was all very jovial till the rituals started and suddenly my mom was made an outcast.. I was so livid with anger, but kept quite since it was no fault of my cousin who was getting married and we didnt want to spoil her best day. But till date i cant talk to my uncle-aunty normally. And you know what, these uncle -aunty i am talking about are DOCTORS!!

Somebody has rightly said: “education can’t change the culture” atleast not altogether!! SIGH!!!

But apart from the above incidence, mom is well now and though she misses dad a lot (obviously!!) she has picked up her life well!

sorry to take up a lot of space here.. but couldn’t help but tell you this!! hope you dont mind

By: Harsh

Harsh — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 03:31:54 +0000

Hosh waalon ko khabar kya bekhudi kya cheej hai