2011 : A Closure

Dear 2011,

Thank you for finally coming to your tail end. I have been waiting for you to get over since May 2011. You have been brutal. You have been kind. You have been taunting. You have been encouraging. You tested my patience. You tested my mood swings. You tested my relationships. You shaped my personality. You have been a year that’s made of character building stuff.

 

You are now ending with a smile on my lips and a boost of self-confidence. Please keep the vibes alive for 2012 and beyond.

 

And dear readers, thank you for subscribing to this blog. No, seriously! It feels great to receive so much love. I am feeling encouraged to post regularly.

Wish me for the new innings. A big challenge will start from 9 January, 2012 and I am excited and nervous at the same time.

 

Love,

md610

xx

 

And now for keeping the blog’s tradition alive with the top entries.

 

The moments captured in my heart (with some vaaaa on the side *pout pout*)

 

1. Valentine’s Day Surprise Cruise
2. 6 May – And we graduated! Missed mom dad but basked in the comforting warmth of A who stood by me like a rock during all the troubling times.
3. 2 September – Big day for daddy’s lil girl. I know he is proud of me for expanding my purchasing horizon wider than shoes and dresses.
4. 28 October – Glimpse of the oasis. There is a silver lining to all dark clouds. Light at the end of a four year old bumpy tunnel stretch.
5. 5 November – A ‘ground breaking’ day.

 

The Angels (in no order as they have equal space in my heart )

 

Mum Dad – They heard our rants, they advised us, they coached us. They were the lifeboat that kept us floating. They helped us take wiser decisions. Above all, for they counted us in their blessings.

 

Prashant and Sujatha – For being our family here. For many late nights. For several chat sessions. For being adorable Vedant and Dhruv’s Kaki.

 

Frank and Saloni – For being a mentor for our new challenge. For being the ones who knew what we were going through. For opening their house and their heart to us. A special polar bear hug to Suhaan. Let’s go to Bunnings * repeat 10,000 times.

 

Mridu – For hearing me out. For being the first person to actually tell me I am her Best Friend *weeps*. For giving me an advanced birthday present because I deserved it (rightly so!). For being the kid sister I never had. Love you Mridu from the bottom of my heart. I missed you SO SO SO much.

 

A special shout out to Ragu for his continuous help. For our late night brainstormings. For his classic wobble headmovement. For just being this NICE.

 

My A – For holding my hand. For comforting me. For wiping my tears. For listening to my sleep time talks. For hugging me. For not letting me fall.

Pyar Mein Hai Jeevan Ki Khushi, Deti Hai Khushi Kai Gham Bhi
Main Maan Bhi Loon Kabhi Haar. Tu Maane Na

 

 

The Pep-ness

 

Jagjit Singh Ji’s concert at The Edge. I have counted my stars several times for getting to witness his aura in my lifetime.

 

Su’s Baby shower. Played hostess. Some heavy duty baking and lots of organizing later it was a lovely evening!

 

A’s surprise birthday party. I finally managed to pull a surprise!

 

Shetty Anna’s farewell. Aah the dance of madness. The impromptu chorus of Teri Tirrchi Nazar Ne Dil ko Pencharr with tablaa on the table.

Day of Diva. Lots of Lavender, Aromatherapy.. Some girly moments, sips of Strawberry Lush and an incredible dinner at Ruan Thai with the boys!

 

Camping trip to Paihia. A much needed break. More here.

 

 

The Losses

 

Stupid decision with an area of 1200m² and some 50k hectares. *smh*

 

Being too busy to lose touch with the buddies. Sorry Kanika, Mansi and Monu. Y’know I love you like crazy. I do. I do. I do.

 

The uncontrollable flow of tears after reading fake tweets regarding Jagjit Singh Ji. I have only cried once before like this. It took so long for me to hear his music again. The first time I heard Kal Chaudhavin Ki Raat thi tears rolled down my cheeks.

 

Faith in twitterville. The site allured me with its 140 characters marvelousness and gems (tweeps!!) who are now on my fb list. The site turned me off with pseudocelebs and fake people who made it a ghetto. How can I ever miss my lovelies – VanDiablo and Rohwit for being their constantly and making me laugh in tough times.

 

NaNoWriMo. Due to events post 28 October I couldn’t keep my pace up with the writing challenge. I will be better prepared for 2012. Yes, I will be. Sorry my dear sponsor. I know I’ve let you down.

 

 

The Hits. The online acclaim. The web of md610

 

Tears Taste Awesome.

This love story found so much adulation. Why, it brought me at least three offers for professional writing.

Jolt to Reality.

This destiny v/s talent short story promoted good debate on direct messages and gtalk chat windows.

3 Saal 11 Mahine aur 17 Din.

My first audio story rendition found stupendous response and brought me so much love and and affection for my diction and voice. Some mistook me for a professional sound artist. Some mistook me for an RJ.

Kuch Is Tarah.

The audio rendition of this poem that I wrote several years ago struck a sensitive chord with people. I got a worried call from family back home. Had to convince my super huggable folks that the poem didn’y reflect anything that was happening to me personally.

The iPhone photographer in me found some sugah on Instagram. Check them here. Alternatively, check the imported Flickr stream here.

 

 

The Music. The best mate - iPod

(A big polar bear hug to my Santa who gave me the much desired Bose Acoustics Noise Cancelling Headphones)

Shaitan.

Uff the madness. The addiction. This is clearly one of the BEST OSTs in recent times.

Delhi Belly. The situational tracks with perfect dose of pep pep pep. Special mention to end piece of Tere Siva, the sole love ballad.

 

Rockstar – Kun Faaya Kun. I am lost for words. Sheher Mein. Tum Ho. Aah the magic of ARR.

 

The Saadi Galli, The Laung Da Lashkara, The Char Baj Gaye, The Bekaraan, The Saibo, The Senorita, The Chammak Challo, The Madhubala, The Jugni, The Ooh La La

 

Adele. She captured my heart. She has a voice that is hopelessly beautiful. She helped me mend my broken heart somehow.

 

 

The Big Screen (Indian)

 

Dhobi Ghaat. Amazing debut by Kiran Rao. Beautiful screenplay. Heart-warming characters. Lovely thumris.

 

Pyaar Ka Punchnama. Hilarious dialogues. Boys perspective. Guilty conscious girls. Liquid FTW.

 

Shaitan. Loved loved loved. EXCEPT the last scene. Still not over Khoya Khoya Chaand!

 

I am Kalam. Promoted this gem as much as I could on social sites. BRILLIANT. Had a long chat with Pitobash about his work. Also, in the same breath let’s include Chillar Party.

 

Yeh Saali Zindagi. Chitrangda. Irrfan. Arunoday. Aditi. A heady cocktail of performances.

 

Chalo Dilli. A sweet tale. Beautiful ending.

 

Mujhse Fraandship Karoge. Nupur Asthana relieved the memories of Hipp Hipp Hurray with her movie directorial debut.

 

Saheb Biwi aur Gangster. The rustic look reminded me of Omkara. Fast paced screenplay and amazing supporting actors.

 

(HOPING TO FILL THIS SPACE). No, I still haven’t got a chance to catch The Dirty Picture or Rockstar. Yes KMN.

 

 

The Bald spots (The Duds. Pulled strands of hair)

 

7 Khoon Maaf. It was torture. Predictability got its new definition.

 

Yamla Pagla Deewana. The way Dharmendra behaved in the film he deserves to be punished.

 

Game. The mind numbing who dunnit. Still exasperating how Excel produced this!

 

Ready. 45 minutes into the movie I knew death will be better. And in the same breath let’s include Bodyguard here.

 

Murder 2. A soft porn production by the Bhatts. 30 minutes into the movie and I knew Jacqueline saved the costume budget.

 

Bbuddahh Hoga Tera Baap. Overdose of Big B. He needs to take it slow. No, really! Over exposure on social websites and then this horrendous narcissist portrayal.

 

Yes. I was sane enough not to finish watching the catastrophy thy name Ra.One. I am keen to know in which parallel universe is this a movie SRK created for kids with the disgusting sexual innuendos! Seriously, the moment I read this line in a review – ‘Kareena was shown sprinkling the ‘ash’ after they have buried the dead body’ I knew I won’t be watching it. EVER! But I still saw 20 minutes of this puke inducing movie after I challenged A that I’d rather watch Ra.One TWICE than watch Himes’ Dammadamm. I actually liked Dammadamm.

The Telly (The Wit. The Deductions)

 

Modern Family. Oh yes, Modern Family. This is clearly one of the best shows on telly today. The dry wit, the eclectic mix of characters, the take on Modern Families.

 

The Middle. Patricia Heaton’s portrayal as Frankie Heck is reminiscent of our moms. Sue Heck’s unbeatable spirits remind me hey everything will be fine!

 

HIMYM. Just when I had started to give up on the show, it picked up marvellously with the new season. Marshall and Lilly make me believe in stories that last forever.

 

Emmy’s 2011. ‘Aah welcome to the Modern Family Awards‘ (Jane Lynch). Aah Shelly Jim Parsons got his second Emmy, Aah Jim looked ridiculously cute while accepting it.

 

Sherlock. Aah Benedict Cumberbatch portraying the mystifying lead character in this contemporary take on Doyle’s literary work.

 

(Two & a Half Men. Reruns of Reruns. Not digging the new season. I feel like punching the smirky Ashton as soon as the title track begins.)

 

The Soul Stirrers ~ special mention for movies that not necessarily released in 2011 but were seen in 2011.

 

The Girl in Yellow Boots (2010). The movie left me disturbed. Twitterville suggested I’d watch Bol as well. I chose not to. My soul was shaken enough!

 

The Way Back They say it is part fiction part true. What I took from the movie is I WANT to believe a group of prisoners did walk their way from Siverian Gulag to India.

The Whistleblower (2010). This disturbed me and made me thank god for living in one of the safest places on earth. If this account by Kathryn Bolkovac (portrayed beautifully by Rachel Weisz) is true I feel violated. I feel helpless. I feel inhuman.

Contagion (Jennifer Ehle is brilliant), The Debt (except the shaky end) and MI4 (the Burj Khalifa scene scared the hell out of me). Trust (all the parents of teenage kids must watch)

महसूस

कई बार ऐसा हुआ है उसे मैंने महसूस किया है

आँखों का भ्रम कहो या मन का धुंदला विश्वास

कई बार उसने मेरे कंधो पे हाथ रखा है

जब भी पलट कर देखा वो धुंदला नज़र आया है

कई बार ऐसा हुआ है उसे मैंने महसूस किया है

उसने आँखों की सुजन को भी पढ़ा है

पहली बूँद जो टपकी झट से उसने  उठाया है

जब भी दूसरी बूँद टपकी मैंने उसे पिया है

कई बार ऐसा हुआ है उसे मैंने महसूस किया है

उसने मेरे उलझे बालों को सहलाया है

पहली लट जो उडी थी कानो के पीछे उसने घुमाया है

दूसरी लट जो उडी थी आँखों को उन्होंने चुभाया है

कई बार ऐसा हुआ है उसे मैंने महसूस किया है

पुरानी डायरी

सालो बाद निकली स्टोर रूम सेधुल सनी पुरानी डायरीयादो की बारात निकालीधुल सनी पुरानी डायरीबचपन के दिन, दादाजी के साथ खेल के दिन,वो जिद के दिन, मासूमियत के दिन,शरारतो के दिन, माँ से डांट खाने के दिनयादो की बारात निकालीधुल सनी पुरानी डायरीतीन पहियों वाली साइकिल को खीचने के दिनअपने जन्मदिन के इंतज़ार के दिन,दोस्तों से चिढ़ने बिगाड़ने के दिनकभी अब्बा तो कभी कट्टी करने के दिनयादों को अब्बा कहतीयादो की बारात निकालीधुल सनी पुरानी डायरी

सालो बाद निकाली स्टोर रूम से

धुल सनी पुरानी डायरी

यादो की बारात निकाली

धुल सनी पुरानी डायरी

बचपन के दिन, दादाजी के साथ खेल के दिन,

वो जिद के दिन, मासूमियत के दिन,

शरारतो के दिन, माँ से डांट खाने के दिन

यादो की बारात निकाली

धुल सनी पुरानी डायरी

तीन पहियों वाली साइकिल को खीचने के दिन

अपने जन्मदिन के इंतज़ार के दिन,

दोस्तों से चिढ़ने बिगाड़ने के दिन

कभी अब्बा तो कभी कट्टी करने के दिन

यादों को अब्बा कहती

यादो की बारात निकाली

धुल सनी पुरानी डायरी

सालो बाद निकाली स्टोर रूम से

धुल सनी पुरानी डायरी

यादो की बारात निकाली

धुल सनी पुरानी डायरी

बचपन के दिन, दादाजी के साथ खेल के दिन,

वो जिद के दिन, मासूमियत के दिन,

शरारतो के दिन, माँ से डांट खाने के दिन

यादो की बारात निकाली

धुल सनी पुरानी डायरी

तीन पहियों वाली साइकिल को खीचने के दिन

अपने जन्मदिन के इंतज़ार के दिन,

दोस्तों से चिढ़ने बिगाड़ने के दिन

कभी अब्बा तो कभी कट्टी करने के दिन

यादों को अब्बा कहती

यादो की बारात निकाली

धुल सनी पुरानी डायरी

Wrote this poem in 1999. I found my old diary today; sharing one of the poems with you

EMI

It was still raining and she was tired of wiping the mud footprints from the carpet. Sonia kept yelling at the children to either stay out or stay in. Her rattled behaviour was much avoided by the children who kept running in the garden.

Mahi was lost; she knew this day would be coming and had practiced what all she would say but at this stage it all looked bizzarre. Mahi was motionless and was seeing the flashes of scenes that took her two years back.

Yash’s sister was giggling and not letting them enter the home while negotiating for a good neg for her new bhabhi. Mahi was tired and sore of wearing heavy wedding trousseau and could feel the flowers turning soggy in her hair. The cold morning was indifferent and she waited for a moment of silence.

Several seasons had passed since both of them talked. The words were said but without substance, the pleasantries were exchanged but without warmth, the emotions were transformed from being affected to being aloof. The relationship was going on a track too straight with no exciting corners to look forward to or any romantic tunnels to cozy up to. The lock that binded them became more of a communal sect one adheres to.

Sonia came into their life when they were almost unaware of their existence under the same roof. Sonia had discovered the illness that prevailed in the house, she felt the emptiness that was not hiding well behind the décor of the house nor the heavy picture frames that hung on the otherwise white walls. She talked to Yash and tried diving in his heart and check if any feelings were left in the otherwise happy guy she knew earlier. He couldn’t say much and stuck to monosyllables for the rest of the seemingly pointless conversation. She didn’t give up and told him to talk to her whenever he wanted. She hugged him and let him feel some emotional warmth he had been missing all the while.

Mahi was even difficult to approach. If Yash was stuck on his monosyllables, she was stuck with her stone cold appearance that shooked Sonia. Sonia blabbered for hours and hours while Mahi sat motionless as if the two shared different languages.

Sonia knew she had no place in that house and prepared to make a move. The sound was coming from outside, a sound which was not heard in the house for years. She went out to check. They were laughing, Mahi was making fun of Yash’s dance steps and giggled and tears rolled down her eyes. They both looked like young people who had first time fallen in love. Her smile was captivating and Yash just looked at her cherubic face and thanked god million times inside his heart for gifting him Mahi. Mahi was happy with the five balloons he had bought for her on the beach and felt happy and prayed to god to freeze the moment as she never wanted more. Sonia looked at Mahi and Yash who were watching the recording of their honeymoon video which the children had found in the big rimu finished CD rack next to the LCD screen.

The house was big and everything whatever Mahi and Yash had dreamt of their dream home. It was large and in the posh suburbs right next to the golf course Yash went every Saturday morning. The house was inhabited in two rooms by them and the other spare space was adorned with pieces of everything glorious Mahi could figure out from the bulk of Interior magazines she had subscribed since last five years.

TV news, newspapers, radio, internet all the media made them aware of the first recession they had seen in their lives. The pressure was overgrowing at the workplace and both were coping with it and gasping at the monthly installments they were paying for their dream. His pressure was rising at the mention of relocating to Qatar where there was still hope for Mechanical Engineers like him while Mahi relented to the demand of extra shifts in her troubled KPO. They both knew they were paying the installments with their relationship and its bond.

The time difference and the stress and the loneliness ensured they spoke perfectly to each other on the web chats. They both told how their day was, what did they eat and how was the weather. The chat ended with their stoic yawns and banalities of love you’s and an obvious distance that was separating them now even virtually.

GDP was progressing and the economy was finally “out” of recession. The economic cycle was moving to another state and so was Yash. Two years had passed when they had started as newly weds to a couple who celebrated their anniversaries in different worlds. They were like strangers who lived together and paid the bills together to keep the dream home running. The void looked irreparable and enough damage was done when the phone call came. Sonia was back in Yash’s life.

The recording finished with Mahi proclaming on a mountain ‘I Love you’ and Yash smiled at the echo when Mahi giggled at her echo. All they could hear now was the noise of the rain while Sonia yelled at the children to either stay out or stay in.

Just of two of them were there. So much to be said and heard. The words were just not coming right in the mind at the very moment when they felt a sudden urge to wipe the distance. She knew this day would be coming and had practiced what all she would say but at this stage it all looked bizzarre. They hugged and now all looked better and worth paying for.

They held hands while Sonia and the children looked for the correct gate number at the airport. She hugged them and asked Yash for a good neg for her new bhabhi.

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neg = customary gifts that sisters ask during a wedding; bhabhi = sister in law